This is Serious.

[Kravers]

Ok, me and my girlfriend ( Alex ) have been going out since January and I really like her, but when I went to school today, I saw her kissing another boy! Man, this really broke my heart, we have kissed eachother before, and now she goes right around and finds another man? I feel like crying myself to sleep tonight, my heart is broken, I feel so bad. What should I do to find out just what the hell is going on?

[Nick69pd]

1. How old are you? Should you really classify yourself as a man?
2.(on topic) Ask her, but don't make it seem like all is lost. Just say it like you want her to know that you two should still be together, not like you're pissed.
3.If she still continues to kiss that other guy, ask her if she really wants to be with you.

[Kravers]

I am 17, I guess I am not a man, but I am old enough to date, and I did ask her, but she just ignored me and went to sit with the other guy.

[zakob]

...Ask her? If she has no good reason she's probably a trullop.

[MushroomMammoth]

Was it a peck or a long, french kiss?

Ask her about it. If she says to your face that she's cheating on you, dump her. You can do better than that, she should learn a lesson of morals.

[What do you want from me?]

Yeah, if she goes behind your back like that, show/tell her that you could be better off without her. It's sad, and heartbreaking for this to happen, but life moves on. You'll find someone more trustworthy.

It also might be that she cheated on him with you.

[Wolfman]

As they say, it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all

[Espo Mk. II]

peck? could be a cousin. and if she is cheating on you, you ####ing break up with her and smack her across the face.

[Wolfman]

peck? could be a cousin. and if she is cheating on you, you ####ing break up with her and smack her across the face.

I hope she's not cheating on you with her cousin... That would be akward.

[Kravers]

Nah, I would probably know if that was her cousin, and I asked her who he was, so why couldn't she tell me he was her cousin?

[Wolfman]

she just ignored me and went to sit with the other guy.

If you really want to know, you should be more demanding about getting an answer. Grab her, back her against a wall, look her square in the eye and ask her in a stern tone of voice why she betrayed you. It's OK to be forceful, just don't hurt her.

[¿CRAZYØ¿]

Maybe you should ask the guy who he is and what that was all about?

[What do you want from me?]

If you really want to know, you should be more demanding about getting an answer. Grab her, back her against a wall, look her square in the eye and ask her in a stern tone of voice why she betrayed you. It's OK to be forceful, just don't hurt her.I sugest you stop giving advice. Force like this is rarely "OK". It could get Kravers in trouble.

[Squidude]

I am 17, I guess I am not a man, but I am old enough to date, and I did ask her, but she just ignored me and went to sit with the other guy.
This seems to be an overlooked statement. You approached her. She walked to the guy who was NOT YOU. She knows you saw her go to the guy who was NOT YOU. That is a very clear statement that it is over. Sorry.

As for how to handle the heartbreak:

What exactly are you losing? A girlfriend who does not want to be with you.
Think about, try to deal with it for a week or so, ask someone else out.

[Mara]

If you really want to know, you should be more demanding about getting an answer. Grab her, back her against a wall, look her square in the eye and ask her in a stern tone of voice why she betrayed you. It's OK to be forceful, just don't hurt her.

Wow. If a guy did that to me, over me just giving a peck on my friend's cheek, I wouldn't even talk to him again.

Kravers, it's all about communication. You need to talk to her about it. Unless it turns out to be nothing, it will be upsetting to talk about, but you have to unless you want to live a lie.

If she absolutely refuses to talk to you about it, either try and pin her down (don't grab her, no no, but that doesn't mean you can't try and make her talk about it) on the topic. This isn't something that you're being neurotic about, this is a legitimate problem. If she doesn't talk about it, breaking up might be something you'll have to do. I don't know the complete story, but I couldn't live with my s.o. cheating behind my back.

Just don't lose your head. If it was just a peck, just inquire. If it was a French kiss, you can go in a little more heavier. But don't start off mad, that makes you the bad guy.

[AssaultRifle]

I'm 17, same age as you. I'm in a relationship now and I have been for over 2 1/2 years. Really, just forget her. Boo hoo - she kissed someone else. She doesn't like you. Get over it quickly and you will feel better. Just be glad that she didn't screw someone else.

[What do you want from me?]

I'm 17, same age as you. I'm in a relationship now and I have been for over 2 1/2 years. Really, just forget her. Boo hoo - she kissed someone else. She doesn't like you. Get over it quickly and you will feel better. Just be glad that she didn't screw someone else.Or you and then someone else, for that matter.

[AssaultRifle]

^ Correct.