So there's this girl...

[mets6891]

Okay, so there's this girl I like. I've known her since 6th grade (I'm in 9th now). She used to like me and would show it, but now since I don't see her as often there's no way to tell. I've never been in a relationship before, so therefore I would not know how to begin one. I wouldn't want to:

A. Go up to her and blurt out "WULL U GO oWT WIT ME?!111!"
B. Send her notes or #### like that.
C. Have a "friend" do it.

I would like to:
A. Allow myself and her to become friends, but not "just friends".
B. Not have it take 3 years.

Any help you could give me, I'd appreciate.

[ipwnkthxbai]

Watch her from a distance.

[redwater40]

dont stalk. get noticed by her (positive notice, not negative.) and talk to her. dont use friends to do it. As AR says, grow a pair.

[ipwnkthxbai]

No, redwater's idea is horrible. Seriously. Like stalk her for a while, and then when you build up the confidence, give her a date rape drug and see how it goes.

[mets6891]

No. That's creepy. Creep.

And how could I get "noticed"?

I've tried.

[ipwnkthxbai]

I get all the girls I want, my way works, seriously. <_<

[redwater40]

to get noticed: dont act like a loser (negative noticeness) dont draw alot of attention to yourself (its usually isnt positive when you draw too much). talk to her, grow a pair. she might say hi since she liked u in grade 6

[mets6891]

Thanks for the tip. Can anyone else help me out?

[jman1094]

Just go up to her and say hi....Then find something to talk about...If you're nervous then dont talk gibberish yell in your head "i can do this"!

[Hero of Time]

Don't send a freind.

If you don't know her, get to know her alot. I'm having the same problem.

[Danielle]

Just go up and talk to her. You've known her for three years, so you must atleast be able to talk about the weather.

[mattz1010]

"Hey, what's up?"

...

See? not hard. :)

[Halo007]

dont stalk. get noticed by her (positive notice, not negative.) and talk to her. dont use friends to do it. As AR says, grow a pair.>.> I (ME) say that.


Flash your genitalia! That will get her noticing you =P

Do a stupid dance! Crotch grab, Preffered or Micheal Jackson variation. Go up to her and say hey I've got aids! you want to have unprotected sex in my moms mini van!? And she'll be on you like THAT!

[mets6891]

I was actually thinking of just asking her out, just like:

"Hey."
"What's up."
"Do you have any plans Friday night? Do you want to go to (insert place here)?"

Would that work? At all?

[redwater40]

maybe, maybe not. take it one step at a time, get to know her better

[Impulse]

>.> I (ME) say that.
Clyde (coheedandcambria) is--and always will be--the owner of that comment.

[mets6891]

All those tips are fine and dandy, but can you give me some ways to talk to her? I feel like such a loser when I go up to her and say "So, what'd you think of the Spanish homework last night?"

I was hoping to be able to ask her to go to the movies or something on Friday, but I wanted to do it this week.

[Tan the coolest]

give her flowers or sumthin

[What do you want from me?]

Ignore Tan. Just talk with her. Ask her if she wants to go out somewhere. That's all. Let it be normal, natural.

[mets6891]

Correct me if I'm wrong: The way I see it, there are two types of relationships:

One where you know a person for a while, then ask them if they want to "go out", or one where you "go out" to get to know a person. Which one would anybody recommend?

[What do you want from me?]

Eather. Depends on the person.

[mets6891]

And just today, I found out that she "may like some guy".

Although it's hard to tell because it could be a song lyric or something.

[mattz1010]

the first one has a larger chance of a long-term relationship.

if you want to just #### her, go for the second one.

[Eon26]

"A." all the way!!!!!! If u ask her indirectly... ur a loser -,-

[mets6891]

Can anyone give me some tips on talking to her? I only see her occasionally in the halls and in Spanish class, and I don't even sit next to her! I have her AIM name, and she's on a lot. Is that a way to go?

[ipwnkthxbai]

Frig, fine, I'll give some real advice.

Start up a conversation with her on AIM, say something like "Hey, haven't talked to you in a while." Ask her about her life, how it's going and such. Ya know, get into a conversation about everything, anything.

The next day at school start talking to her and stuff, slowly build up her friendship with her and ya know, show her that you're a nice guy. Eventually start hinting to her that you want something more, if she acts interested, then go for it, if not, then life sucks, but there's nothing you can do.

[Shadow Crest]

Just #### her and get it over with.