View Full Version : I need to be more noticable
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 04:54 PM
How would you get hot girl's or girl's to start noticing or start to like you? And please dont just say "Just talk to them."
denacioust
09-07-2006, 05:04 PM
Waving your penis about usually is good...
Of course there are better ways...being nice towards her and others, be in a band...believe me that does amazing stuff, all the hot girls like guys in bands even if they're not particualrly good...
Just to clarify denacioust's comment...
He means like a rock band type of band, with a drummer, singer, etc.
Being in band will tend to have the opposite effect on occasion.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 05:15 PM
Waving your penis about usually is good...
Of course there are better ways...being nice towards her and others, be in a band...believe me that does amazing stuff, all the hot girls like guys in bands even if they're not particualrly good...
Nah, playing music is not my thing plus, nobody would want to be apart of my band.
I know this girl who know's a few more girl's which they more a few more girl's (etc. etc.), so will this be any help?
Gerbil!
09-07-2006, 05:16 PM
Make funny jokes.
Ethicz
09-07-2006, 06:29 PM
follow the style trend. Or, talkative in class, always sit next to the girl that u like in class, ask her some questions about a certain subject, and then ask her about things that are not school related.
WaterZoma
09-07-2006, 06:31 PM
Hang around with some friends that hang around girls.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 06:55 PM
follow the style trend. Or, talkative in class, always sit next to the girl that u like in class, ask her some questions about a certain subject, and then ask her about things that are not school related.
Well, I'm kinda shy so that is kind of a problem.
Make funny jokes.
and
Hang around with some friends that hang around girls.
Are great. Also, I assume the "Hot girls" are the popular ones. I take "No one would be in my band" to reflect low self-esteem (or was that simply a comment on musical ability?), if so, low self-esteem is such a turn off. Some people will just live off or all your positive comments, which is really annoying (you can't have a conversation that doesnt' revolve around them, or complimenting them). I'm not saying you're this type of person, I don't know you, just don't be this type of person.
And Hex, being in the band isn't a sticker for un-cool (where I live at least). Sure, if you're a band dork, than sure. But if you were proffecient at the drums (or holophoner?) as well as being 'cool', that would go a far way. Music can be a catalyst of sorts, but not the cause.
XGEN-CRaZeD
09-07-2006, 07:08 PM
I've tried all of these. Haven't worked so well. AT ALL. But it might be different for you, Honeycomb. You aren't as "oddly styled" as me.
Vagrant
09-07-2006, 07:26 PM
You gotta be comfortable with yourself. That means confidence.
You gotta get yourself noticed, don't ask me how.
Wear the right clothes, be charming.
Get your name spread around -- in a positive way.
Be well groomed, smell nice. I also hear that special pheromone cologne helps.
You must be willing to put a lot of time and effort into this. This isn't something that passively happens.
Those are basically the steps to getting popular girls. If that's what you want. Popular girls like guys who exude confidence, look great, and who their friends talk about. That's basically it.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 07:51 PM
You gotta be comfortable with yourself. That means confidence.
You gotta get yourself noticed, don't ask me how.
Wear the right clothes, be charming.
Get your name spread around -- in a positive way.
Be well groomed, smell nice. I also hear that special pheromone cologne helps.
You must be willing to put a lot of time and effort into this. This isn't something that passively happens.
Those are basically the steps to getting popular girls. If that's what you want. Popular girls like guys who exude confidence, look great, and who their friends talk about. That's basically it.
Yeah, I see ad's all over the web for that stuff, Too bad I'm underaged to buy it...
Ethicz
09-07-2006, 08:29 PM
Yeah, I see ad's all over the web for that stuff, Too bad I'm underaged to buy it...
u r highschooler or middle schooler?
WaterZoma
09-07-2006, 08:31 PM
Become involved in school plays, try out for sports, or join a school club.
zakob
09-07-2006, 08:38 PM
Ethicz, please try to actually speak english. Instead of chewing it and spitting it out.
If you were talking in a correct manner, you would have said something like this :
Do you attend High school, or middle school?
BTW honeycomb, I think you should just be yourself.
SalsatheGeek
09-07-2006, 08:46 PM
Well, attact attention in school in some way is what they're all trying to say.......
WaterZoma
09-07-2006, 08:48 PM
Ethicz, please try to actually speak english. Instead of chewing it and spitting it out.
If you were talking in a correct manner, you would have said something like this :
Do you attend High school, or middle school?
BTW honeycomb, I think you should just be yourself.That is the reason why he needs advice. Being himself isn't enough for him at the moment.
zakob
09-07-2006, 08:51 PM
I guess I kind of agree with you, but I don't think you should change who you are, so someone will like you. If someone where to actually like you for who you are, then that would probably turn out to be a good relationship.
Sperry
09-07-2006, 08:53 PM
# You gotta get yourself noticed, don't ask me how.How do I get noticed?
By being noticed!
Trust yourself - you're not some mass of undesirable male goo; you're an actual person. Respect yourself as one, and identify yourself. What is it that makes you you? Find it, enhance it, use it.
Ethicz
09-07-2006, 08:59 PM
Ethicz, please try to actually speak english. Instead of chewing it and spitting it out.
If you were talking in a correct manner, you would have said something like this :
Do you attend High school, or middle school?
BTW honeycomb, I think you should just be yourself.
highschooler (with "er" at the end) is another way of saying: do you attend highschool, it's a slang word. If u understood the way i wrote, then i dont need to write it in a complete sentence do I?
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 09:12 PM
I've said this before in another dating situation here on XGen, and I will say it again...
No girl wakes up in the morning and says to herself, 'I don't want to be swept off my feet today'
Seriously, if you want to be noticed, the only way to do it is with one large-scale event that she will remember you by. Even if it is a stupid joke that she finds to be funny, leave on a good note. Once you notice you are doing a good job, get the hell out of there!
The fact of the matter is, women fall for someone they can't get enough of. What makes them have that feeling? Suspense. If you leave at the highest point of you looking good, she will remember you as that guy who was simply amazing.
How can you achieve that high point? Well there are a few ways. Follow these steps:
First impression is key.
You don't want to come off as to aggressive. Be quiet, but talk when you have something interesting to say.
Invite her. Ask her a question about something you are sure she will know. If she is a cheerleader, ask her a simple thing about cheerleading!
Stick to what you can both relate to. Don't talk about things you know nothing about, because she might know everything about it. What does that make you look like? A fool.
Conversation.
Don't mumble. Be confident in your words.
Don't look down, or anywhere else then directly at her.
Stop visualizing taking off her cloths, and actually listen to what she has to say. This will pay off when she asks you a question.
ASK QUESTIONS. Girls love to talk about themselves. The more questions you ask, the better her mood will be.
Act interested. Even if you are not, act it. She will notice.
The Departure.
Excuse. You will need one before you even go through step 1. Pre-plan an excuse for why you have to leave. Ex: Project, curfew, babysitting sibling, or simply 'I have to run, sorry'.
Ask for her number. If you did things right, she will give it to you hands down. Which brings us to...
Asking for the number.
Don't demand. Ask. Not 'Give me your number', say, 'Can I have your number?'
Here is a list of things to say:
Hey, it's been great talking but I have to go [excuse here]. Can I get your number so we can catch up sometime?
I had a great time talking with you, do you think I can get your number? I want to hear more of what you have to say.
(Simple), Can I have your number?
If it is alright with you, can I call you sometime?
The key is to be un-intrusive, yet interested.
Well, that is all that I have to say on this matter. If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer you.
Dr. Advice,
Dominick
Halo007
09-07-2006, 09:26 PM
I've said this before in another dating situation here on XGen, and I will say it again...
No girl wakes up in the morning and says to herself, 'I don't want to be swept off my feet today'
Seriously, if you want to be noticed, the only way to do it is with one large-scale event that she will remember you by. Even if it is a stupid joke that she finds to be funny, leave on a good note. Once you notice you are doing a good job, get the hell out of there!
The fact of the matter is, women fall for someone they can't get enough of. What makes them have that feeling? Suspense. If you leave at the highest point of you looking good, she will remember you as that guy who was simply amazing.
How can you achieve that high point? Well there are a few ways. Follow these steps:
First impression is key.
You don't want to come off as to aggressive. Be quiet, but talk when you have something interesting to say.
Invite her. Ask her a question about something you are sure she will know. If she is a cheerleader, ask her a simple thing about cheerleading!
Stick to what you can both relate to. Don't talk about things you know nothing about, because she might know everything about it. What does that make you look like? A fool.
Conversation.
Don't mumble. Be confident in your words.
Don't look down, or anywhere else then directly at her.
Stop visualizing taking off her cloths, and actually listen to what she has to say. This will pay off when she asks you a question.
ASK QUESTIONS. Girls love to talk about themselves. The more questions you ask, the better her mood will be.
Act interested. Even if you are not, act it. She will notice.
The Departure.
Excuse. You will need one before you even go through step 1. Pre-plan an excuse for why you have to leave. Ex: Project, curfew, babysitting sibling, or simply 'I have to run, sorry'.
Ask for her number. If you did things right, she will give it to you hands down. Which brings us to...
Asking for the number.
Don't demand. Ask. Not 'Give me your number', say, 'Can I have your number?'
Here is a list of things to say:
Hey, it's been great talking but I have to go [excuse here]. Can I get your number so we can catch up sometime?
I had a great time talking with you, do you think I can get your number? I want to hear more of what you have to say.
(Simple), Can I have your number?
If it is alright with you, can I call you sometime?
The key is to be un-intrusive, yet interested.
Well, that is all that I have to say on this matter. If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer you.
Dr. Advice,
DominickListen to A.R the dating advice king! If you need any sexual tips give me a ring.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 09:29 PM
Listen to A.R the dating advice king! If you need any sexual tips give me a ring.
I can cover those as well, but there is never a thing as too much advice ^_^
Halo007
09-07-2006, 09:35 PM
You stick to dating >.> Sechs is my thang.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 09:36 PM
-Slaps-
There, feel better now?
Halo007
09-07-2006, 09:41 PM
-Slaps-
There, feel better now?*Slaps* you with mangina from three feet away.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 09:43 PM
*Slaps* you with mangina from three feet away.
Ow, dammit!
... >_>
Wait... a mangina from 3 feet away? Would you have to be facing away from me then?
That means... -stabs in back-
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 09:48 PM
I'll never forget the moment I almost got sucked... =D
Thank's AR, your advice is so far the best. Everyone else... thank you very much :P. No, I'm not being sarcastic.
Alright, the school dance is next Friday so I'll try to think up of something unless you guy's give out more advice :P
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 09:59 PM
Anytime, HC. Tell us how everything goes.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:06 PM
Well, the dance is next week so what should I do there that will make people remember me? I mean, singing "My Little Pony" in grade 4 had atleast two diffrent school's talking about me (I'm dead serious) and random kid's in the hallway would know my name, it was pretty cool actually. And once the teacher thought I was high xD.
If you guy's wanna know what happen's, send me a PM. I'll put you on my list, lol.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:13 PM
Jump from the stage or get in a dance circle, it's what I do, and I always get a headbanging competition going. Ussually the hot girls get on stage and start dancing. Grow some below and dance with them. If your like me they will go with you and maybe even get it dirtier. XD
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:13 PM
You want to do something at the dance? Perfect....
Dance, dammit! What me and a friend of mine do is give a CD to the DJ and do the dance scene from American Wedding. Good times...
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:20 PM
I remember in 9th grade I jumped off the stage and people screamed Brandon! Brandon! Brandon! Yeah, that was a great memory.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:23 PM
The funniest thing I ever did at a dance was get hammered and lip-sing 'Billy Jean' while performing an entire Michale Jackson dance. Yes, I grabbed my nuts, stood on my toes, and did a moonwalk. Yes, I did a massive combo of kicks, hand movements, and robotic-like body twist. It was awesome.
The next morning, I woke up with a white glove on, and a girl next to me at a friends house... now that is a night for you.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:27 PM
I remember in 9th grade I jumped off the stage and people screamed Brandon! Brandon! Brandon! Yeah, that was a great memory.
I'm going to do that but they better be cheering "Ray! Ray! Ray!"
Dom, that's hilarious. I lol'd.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:27 PM
Haha, I should try that at this coming prom! I am a half decent dancer, I love to dirty dance with alot of girls (4 at once)... I am going to show up in a purple tux and a purple satin pimp hat.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:31 PM
Meh, I'll just be casual, a band t-shirt and jeans.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:32 PM
Haha, I should try that at this coming prom! I am a half decent dancer, I love to dirty dance with alot of girls (4 at once)... I am going to show up in a purple tux and a purple satin pimp hat.
By 'dirty dancing' do you mean grinding and such? If so, nice.
I have to admit that I am a very good dancer, if anything. I don't know, it just came natural to me. I was always the life of the dance, that guy who would go into the middle of the floor, run to a friend, have the friend grab my shoe and launch me backwards to do a backflip. Those were the days... now if I do that in a club I get a juiced-up bouncer throwing my ass out.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:35 PM
Grinding with girls in mini skirts... I think one of them was only in like 7th grade (She was like 5,1...) But it was steamy.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:36 PM
Grinding with girls in mini skirts... I think one of them was only in like 7th grade (She was like 5,1...) But it was steamy.
You grind a girl and you were only in 7th grade? Dude, how did that happen?
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:37 PM
Grinding with girls in mini skirts... I think one of them was only in like 7th grade (She was like 5,1...) But it was steamy.
That brings up a good story...
I was walking down the street one day, and I met this girl named Kristy. When I tell you she was hot... I mean long legs, dark flowing hair, and an ass to remember, not to mention her C's. Now, long story short, we ended up back at my house for some fun. We fooled around a bit, nothing major. She had me under the presumption that she was 14 (I was 14 at the time). Then, later on, she admited to me her real age...
12.
Remember, that means she was 10 2 years back.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:38 PM
No she was only 5 feet tall. It was when I was in 9th grade. (I'm 6,1)
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:39 PM
Grinding is always fun, but I prefer other types of dance. When you show a girl that you don't have to be pressing up against her to turn her on, that means you are definitely getting laid.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:41 PM
How do you guy's get laid if you were in 7th grade? How?!
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:42 PM
I turn any girl on when I take my shirt off XD (I work out. Hehe) When we play shirts versus skins The girls watch me play... And when I walk by I sware to god I heard "Brandon, you are pretty good with those balls" Everyone around me laughed hard.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:44 PM
I turn any girl on when I take my shirt off XD (I work out. Hehe) When we play shirts versus skins The girls watch me play... And when I walk by I sware to god I heard "Brandon, you are pretty good with those balls" Everyone around me laughed hard.
Dude... we are brothers from other mothers, seriously.
HC: I didn't get laid until my Sophmore year of high school (well, the summer going into sophmore year). I'm talking about high school dances, not my grammar school ones.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:47 PM
Just reading you two guy's drone on about getting all the girl's kinda made me feel down...
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:48 PM
Cheer up will you! Just because we have found a way to get some girls doesn't mean you can't!
Just find your strong points and work with them.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 10:50 PM
I should post a picture of me... Sadly I lost my camera and This is a new computer so no pics at the moment...
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 10:57 PM
http://img325.imageshack.us/img325/7200/picture97in.jpg
http://myspace-474.vo.llnwd.net/00511/47/46/511726474_l.jpg
Grrrr...
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 10:59 PM
http://forums.xgenstudios.com/showpost.php?p=1110516&postcount=521
Recent one's. Yeah, but my hairstyle is abit diffrent now cause I got a haircut.
Enjoy.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:01 PM
You aren't a bad looking guy, Honeycomb. You just need to use your features to your advantage.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 11:03 PM
You aren't a bad looking guy, Honeycomb. You just need to use your features to your advantage.
Get a perm? What should I do?
Man, am I clueless today...
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:03 PM
AR is pretty damn good looking (A real man can admit that another man looks good and not be gay).
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:05 PM
AR is pretty damn good looking (A real man can admit that another man looks good and not be gay).
Damn skippy xD. My girlfriend says the same.
But, my favorite picture of all is:
http://forums.xgenstudios.com/image.php?u=13977&dateline=1155218889
HC: Don't get a perm, just use your hair to your advantage and put a comb through it. Wear dark colored shirts, because they make your body look slimmer, and don't go with anything overly flashy or risky. Basicly just try to blend.
Honeycomb
09-07-2006, 11:11 PM
Alright, thank's for all the advice. I'll be sure to follow it for the dance and future stuff.
P.S: Dom and Halo, thank's for hijacking my thread. You Terrosist's.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:12 PM
Alright, thank's for all the advice. I'll be sure to follow it for the dance and future stuff.
P.S: Dom and Halo, thank's for hijacking my thread. You Terrosist's.
-slaps-
We shall hijack what we want!
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:13 PM
Hold it! Me when I was 12... (Far RIGHT)
http://img238.imageshack.us/my.php?image=ppk20003el6.jpg
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:14 PM
Twelve years old did not work for you, with the braces and all xD
But then again, nice eyes and hair. Seckeh
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:15 PM
I'm the guy on the far right >.>
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:16 PM
Wait wait wait... right or left?
Right >>>>>>>>>
Left <<<<<<<<<<
It's too late for me to understand such statements.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:19 PM
>.< Right, Right... I am being distracted right now...
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:20 PM
Wait, the right side?
Let's make this easier, because obviously we are having a failure to communicate...
WHICH RIBBON ARE YOU HOLDING?
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:21 PM
White okay XD Sorry being heavily distracted by my messed up TV.
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:23 PM
Okay then, now I can quite possibly say that you are a very good looking man.
It takes a man who is very secure in his sexuality to judge another man, remember that.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:26 PM
It was in a cross country race/Diskit/Hurdles I was in hurdles... 2nd place only got a ribbon XD
AssaultRifle
09-07-2006, 11:27 PM
It was in a cross country race/Diskit/Hurdles I was in hurdles... 2nd place only got a ribbon XD
2nd place?
Pfft, n00b.
Anyway, as great as this conversation has been I have to get some sleep... school is back again, that piece of ####. 'Night.
Halo007
09-07-2006, 11:28 PM
Good night. Well enough borderline spam XD
pieguy34
09-08-2006, 07:42 AM
you could hang out with friends that hang out with the hot girls
Honeycomb
09-08-2006, 08:40 AM
you could hang out with friends that hang out with the hot girls
Already suggested.
I have to go to school soon. Thank god it's Friday. The dance thingie is in exactly 7 days. Yay!
Any more advice? Yes, I want more, =P
AssaultRifle
09-08-2006, 02:37 PM
I'm about adviced out.
Ethicz
09-08-2006, 03:42 PM
Try asking to borrow her book and slip a note in it so she can read it. It may sounds old fashion but it works.
Honeycomb
09-08-2006, 06:04 PM
Ugh, I am kinda shy and I get embarressed at most thing's... most good looking girl's or girl's I like, hang out with the "cooler guy's"... :/
WaterZoma
09-08-2006, 08:02 PM
You have to work your way up. Start with girls that aren't hot if it helps.
Honeycomb
09-08-2006, 08:31 PM
You have to work your way up. Start with girls that aren't hot if it helps.
Work your way up? WTF. Is this some ladder or something?
You dont have to and I prefer not to. I'm not asking for the totally hot sluts, just the good looking one's.
But then again, I'll start with the slut's since I talk to this girl a lot and she's a slut.
WaterZoma
09-08-2006, 08:34 PM
I'm just saying that since you get embarassed talking to good looking girls that you should just get to know the girls that aren't good looking.
Honeycomb
09-08-2006, 08:35 PM
I'm just saying that since you get embarassed talking to good looking girls that you should just get to know the girls that aren't good looking.
No, I get shy to any girl. Except my Mother.
:/
Popolop
09-08-2006, 08:40 PM
You have to learn how to walk before you run. Do what Light said. You have to start talking with some of the non-popular girls so then you can overcome your shyness.
Ethicz
09-08-2006, 09:09 PM
Ugh, I am kinda shy and I get embarressed at most thing's... most good looking girl's or girl's I like, hang out with the "cooler guy's"... :/
From the look of your pic. I used to look exactly like u except the hair (i had spike) when i was in highschool.
You will have to overcome your shyness either now or later. So just do it. Fix your hair: make it spike/dye it red, the black clothes gotta go, wear something natural. Something with blue jeans, black sneakers/brown boots, light blue/green t-shirts, or blue/white long sleeves shirt. Work out to get those muscles (just to get that curve). So just do it. If you r willing to go to that extend, you will automatically overcome your shyness. Its really weird but its true.
Gaffe
09-08-2006, 09:41 PM
Ethicz has muscle?
haha!
redwater40
09-09-2006, 09:21 AM
i went to a new school and a girl has a crush on me now, thats a year above me. so um.. the way to get noticed is not to draw negative attention to yourself. wear noticable/funny clothes maybe? dont go out and wear black pants, those shirts with little holes in them and a chain if you dont want to go out with a punky goth.
Jimbimanim II
09-09-2006, 02:48 PM
wear a shirt that says "if you can read this, i am not in stealth mode" on it...
or a plain black one that says "A-R-S-E" in giant white letters ;)
almost everybody in my school knows my name (my school has 1200 people in it) and im only in year 8 (second year at high school). all i really do is act random (wich makes people laugh:)) and... be myself (wich happens to be random, smart and funny:P).
most people that like the stuff that i do are hated throughout the school, my personality makes up for the fact that i like rock music, have long hair, go to club nirvana (rock club), wear glasses, and look like a complete dork/nerd in my school uniform.
sometimes if i want to make a new friend i act differently, make up some new stuff (usually ends up being funny, somehow), dumb down a bit when im with them (that works when your in the top set) and generally not be myself... iv never had a girlfriend, but thats because i never want to go out with them. quite a few girls (even ones about a year above me O_o) have asked me out and ment it.
you can probably turn that into advice if youre smart enough ;)
Louis Vuitton Don
09-09-2006, 06:15 PM
This may sound wrong...but dependin what age...cruise round in ur car. Getting ripped doesn't hurt either.
Halo007
09-09-2006, 06:37 PM
Just here... Get a $5 pimp hat... And do a stupid dance on stage (Funny gets the Bunny =P) And jump off. You will be doing the no pants dance by the time it's over.
Espo Mk. II
09-09-2006, 07:19 PM
I've said this before in another dating situation here on XGen, and I will say it again...
No girl wakes up in the morning and says to herself, 'I don't want to be swept off my feet today'
Seriously, if you want to be noticed, the only way to do it is with one large-scale event that she will remember you by. Even if it is a stupid joke that she finds to be funny, leave on a good note. Once you notice you are doing a good job, get the hell out of there!
The fact of the matter is, women fall for someone they can't get enough of. What makes them have that feeling? Suspense. If you leave at the highest point of you looking good, she will remember you as that guy who was simply amazing.
How can you achieve that high point? Well there are a few ways. Follow these steps:
First impression is key.
You don't want to come off as to aggressive. Be quiet, but talk when you have something interesting to say.
Invite her. Ask her a question about something you are sure she will know. If she is a cheerleader, ask her a simple thing about cheerleading!
Stick to what you can both relate to. Don't talk about things you know nothing about, because she might know everything about it. What does that make you look like? A fool.
Conversation.
Don't mumble. Be confident in your words.
Don't look down, or anywhere else then directly at her.
Stop visualizing taking off her cloths, and actually listen to what she has to say. This will pay off when she asks you a question.
ASK QUESTIONS. Girls love to talk about themselves. The more questions you ask, the better her mood will be.
Act interested. Even if you are not, act it. She will notice.
The Departure.
Excuse. You will need one before you even go through step 1. Pre-plan an excuse for why you have to leave. Ex: Project, curfew, babysitting sibling, or simply 'I have to run, sorry'.
Ask for her number. If you did things right, she will give it to you hands down. Which brings us to...
Asking for the number.
Don't demand. Ask. Not 'Give me your number', say, 'Can I have your number?'
Here is a list of things to say:
Hey, it's been great talking but I have to go [excuse here]. Can I get your number so we can catch up sometime?
I had a great time talking with you, do you think I can get your number? I want to hear more of what you have to say.
(Simple), Can I have your number?
If it is alright with you, can I call you sometime?
The key is to be un-intrusive, yet interested.
Well, that is all that I have to say on this matter. If you have any questions I will be more than happy to answer you.
Dr. Advice,
Dominick i like your ideas and would like to subscribe to your newsletter. that is a totally kick ass way to get girls to notice you, honecomb, do what Dr. Advice says.
Honeycomb
09-09-2006, 07:23 PM
Just here... Get a $5 pimp hat... And do a stupid dance on stage (Funny gets the Bunny =P) And jump off. You will be doing the no pants dance by the time it's over.
Haha, I was thinking about doing that...
I talk to this slut a lot so if I impress here and her other friend's and everyone else, I should get a gf or something like that in no time.
Espo Mk. II
09-09-2006, 07:32 PM
Haha, I was thinking about doing that...
I talk to this slut a lot so if I impress here and her other friend's and everyone else, I should get a gf or something like that in no time. well, you got 6 days before the dance, hustle up. what kind of dance is this anyway?
Kevim
09-10-2006, 09:30 PM
AR is pretty damn good looking (A real man can admit that another man looks good and not be gay).
Amen! Hell, I'm so manly, that I have even had an erection by looking at a man and not be gay.
Waving your penis about usually is good...
Watch out for dogs though.
Anyhoo...
Well Ray all I can say is beyourself... and be funny. Don't try to grab them, and be nice. They like it when you ask about their day. Some people will sometimes not like you for the littlest reasons, ignore them, you can't change that, because of this if you try you will become a better person than them.
-Arca
Hero of Time
09-11-2006, 06:35 PM
How would you get hot girl's or girl's to start noticing or start to like you? And please dont just say "Just talk to them."Everyone says that >_>, anyway ever thought of passing notes?
Alphaniner
09-11-2006, 07:27 PM
Get a Classically Trained shirt. Honestly. Chicks dig it. Seriously:
http://www.truffleshuffle.co.uk/store/images/Classically_Trained_Nintend.jpg
Espo Mk. II
09-11-2006, 08:14 PM
Everyone says that >_>, anyway ever thought of passing notes?well thats kinda...
2nd grade.
Honeycomb
09-11-2006, 08:42 PM
well thats kinda...
2nd grade.
Not really.
This girl already said she might "make out" with me since it's "National Make-out Week", or whatever. Funny, but true.
Hero of Time
09-11-2006, 09:04 PM
4th period lunch at my school (I'm in 6th period lunch) they pass notes to talk...
Kevim
09-12-2006, 05:03 AM
well thats kinda...
2nd grade.
It works up until High School really. Most girls think it is much cuter and more "romantic" to pass ntes. Just for some reason whenever I have tried to pass ntoes I end up feeling stupider and less of a man.
Jshaw71
09-13-2006, 03:48 PM
How would you get hot girl's or girl's to start noticing or start to like you? And please dont just say "Just talk to them."
just be yourself, if they are interested in you, who cares, dfon't change yourself to be noticed, it's not worth it in the longrun, just living a lie, that's no good
Honeycomb
09-15-2006, 06:32 PM
Hey guy's, I'm back.
There is this girl I like and we dont even talk. We look at each other a few time's, but that's about it. I want to alk to her or atleast say "Hi", but I'm extremely shy and I would kinda feel embaressed if she looked at me weird or laughed at me.
I want her to start knowing I'm someone. What do I do? God, why did I make this thread so large? :/
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