How do I build up confidence?

[MMC]

There is a girl that I really like, no scratch that I love her. I think she likes me, but I'm too chicken #### to ask. When I try I just, can't say anything. Please help me.

With an empty mouth and a full heart,
The MMC

[AssaultRifle]

There is a girl that I really like, no scratch that I love her. I think she likes me, but I'm too chicken #### to ask. When I try I just, can't say anything. Please help me.

With an empty mouth and a full heart,
The MMC

Let me set you strait on this one, YOU DO NOT LOVE HER. You are attracted to her, but you are definitely not in love. Love is between two people's trust and understanding of one another, not one person dreaming about the other.

Now that that is out of the way, confidence. You need to just forget about what other people might say, and go talk to her. Talk to her as if you were just BSing with some of your friends. Once she sees who you really are, you are in the gold.

[neotris9]

There is a girl that I really like, no scratch that I love her. I think she likes me, but I'm too chicken #### to ask. When I try I just, can't say anything. Please help me.

With an empty mouth and a full heart,
The MMC

Just walk up to her and do a pickup line, a cute and non perverted one, one that will make her laugh.

Talk for a while and pop the question.

[Karl]

"I need a place to hide my penis. Can I use you?"

[the Gooch]

Just walk up to her and do a pickup line, a cute and non perverted one, one that will make her laugh.

Talk for a while and pop the question.

no dont use a pick-up line, she'll just think you're cheesy, just do wat AR said, go up and be yourself, don't say anything creepy or perverted though, save those until she really knows you.

[Karl]

Always compliment them. Women like that.

Say she's pretty and whatnot and that you'd like to hang out sometime.

[the Gooch]

Always compliment them. Women like that.

Say she's pretty and whatnot and that you'd like to hang out sometime.

yes but limit to one to two compliments, and after that you sound creepy, and yes when you are ready to end the convo. just say that you got to hang out later on, just do that and you are set mac

[Espo Mk. II]

coversation

you: hi
girl: hello
you: so do you like (a certain band, a sport, something like that)?
girl: well, i like (answer to your country)

after the conersation try and ask to be her friend or something. after a long time, you can eventually ask her to be your girlfriend. i cant help you any thing else after that.

[denacioust]

Guys hes not asking what to do he needs help actually getting the confidence to do so...To the best of my knowledge, Confidence can be programmed into your brain...not like a computer or anything just like brainwashing...My best recollection says that if you sit down close your eyes and breathe deeply, remember a time when you felt a LOT of confidence...remember EVERY single detail about the time...every single emotion you had,the smells, the sights, EVERYTHING. Now keep this image in your brain and press your index finger to against your thumb and using your other hand rub your leg...apparently you can then use the whole pressing the thumb and your finger together to bring back those feelings of confidence...

[mguby814]

ya i agree about the pickup-line that will make her laugh....
but make sure its not the "omg-yr-dumb" laugh
but the "wow-this-guy-is-nice" laugh
and btw!!!!!

this other guy (vagrant)
told me bcuz i have the same problem wit another girl
so im giving u the advice he gave me


"just ask her out and talk fr a while and dont delay
bcuz delaying makes it harder 2 ask i kno frm personal
experience"----vagrant

ty vagrant!
and i hope u folo this advice ok?

[Soon to be flash master]

Yeah, just pretend your doing omething your really good at. Like talking to the girl and pretend your writing HTML for instance.

You: <content> Hi! </content>
Girl: What...?
You: <scared> Umm.. Ahhh.. </scared>
Girl: Your so cool, i want to sleep with you over and over!

Works... Everytime!

[mguby814]

Yeah, just pretend your doing omething your really good at. Like talking to the girl and pretend your writing HTML for instance.

You: <content> Hi! </content>
Girl: What...?
You: <scared> Umm.. Ahhh.. </scared>
Girl: Your so cool, i want to sleep with you over and over!

Works... Everytime!



wow that might not work but anyway.......


lmfao

[MMC]

Guys hes not asking what to do he needs help actually getting the confidence to do so...To the best of my knowledge, Confidence can be programmed into your brain...not like a computer or anything just like brainwashing...My best recollection says that if you sit down close your eyes and breathe deeply, remember a time when you felt a LOT of confidence...remember EVERY single detail about the time...every single emotion you had,the smells, the sights, EVERYTHING. Now keep this image in your brain and press your index finger to against your thumb and using your other hand rub your leg...apparently you can then use the whole pressing the thumb and your finger together to bring back those feelings of confidence...

Thanks, I'll use this tactic. I'll think of when I had salmonella(sp?) and when I thought it didn't matter what I said to anyone 'cause I was gonna die(but I lived).


Denacioust pwns,
The MMC

[Vagrant]

As mguby quoted me, don't delay to ask her. The longer you wait, the harder it becomes to ask as your brain makes it out to be a bigger task than it really is.

Also, a trick I learned to gaining confidence is to merely compliment random girls. I know it sounds strange, but it really helps your confidence.

[Espo Mk. II]

"I need a place to hide my penis. Can I use you?"thats genuis.

[denacioust]

Girl did you just fart cause you're blowing me away...that one always works

[h00pla]

Go to a mormon dance. I'm not kidding that's where I got a lot of my confidence with talking to girls. When a slow song starts you NEED to ask a girl to dance as soon as possible or else a girl will ask you, and thus far there has only been one type that asks the guy to dance.