The ladies.

[Kilut]

Well, I posted in the birds and the bees topic... again, and no one seems to notice it, so I think that should be more pointed to. It seems that topic doesn't get much activity...

Well I have two girls I like:

Ok so me and this girl are really good friends, we talk about pretty much everything, including relationship stuff, and I always ask her for advice and stuff. I have liked her for awhile now, but she has a boyfriend and they've been going out for a couple months. And also, when and if they break up, how long should I wait to ask her out? We also both go to different schools and shes a year older than me.

The other is two years older than me. We almost constantly are texting. I REALLY like her, but I know that she doesn't like me back, we already talked about it, she thinks I don't like her now. But she said we should still be "Best Buds" though. Now for awhile the talking was a tad awkward, but now we talk about everything, including what we like in the opposite sex etc. I just get confused because this girl flirts a lot, but I don't really know what kind of flirting it is. Like one time, I asked her what she was doing, and she said talking to this conor kid (that's my name) and I was like "Oh, I hear he's really sexy" and she was like "definitely lol" and I said "and he's got an awesome personality to" and she said "oh yes he does" And then she was like, "that girl (her) you were talking to earlier, I hear she's really seexy" and I was just like "very much so"
ANd then like 2 weeks ago she invited me (just me) to go running with her, and we did up at the track. I have no idea if she likes me or not, but whatever, I can give more examples if you guys want.

And let's not just call me a wimp through this entire thread, k?



Another question, how do you know when a girl is flirting? and why she is? Like if its because she likes you, or she is just being #####-ish, or she just does that to everybody?

[Dan]

Well, I posted in the birds and the bees topic... again, and no one seems to notice it, so I think that should be more pointed to. It seems that topic doesn't get much activity...

Well I have two girls I like:

One is the one I already posted about in the birds/bees topic

The other is two years older than me. We almost constantly are texting. I REALLY like her, but I know that she doesn't like me back, we already talked about it, she thinks I don't like her now. But she said we should still be "Best Buds" though. Now for awhile the talking was a tad awkward, but now we talk about everything, including what we like in the opposite sex etc. I just get confused because this girl flirts a lot, but I don't really know what kind of flirting it is. Like one time, I asked her what she was doing, and she said talking to this conor kid (that's my name) and I was like "Oh, I hear he's really sexy" and she was like "definitely lol" and I said "and he's got an awesome personality to" and she said "oh yes he does" And then she was like, "that girl (her) you were talking to earlier, I hear she's really seexy" and I was just like "very much so"
ANd then like 2 weeks ago she invited me (just me) to go running with her, and we did up at the track. I have no idea if she likes me or not, but whatever, I can give more examples if you guys want.

And let's not just call me a wimp through this entire thread, k?



Another question, how do you know when a girl is flirting? and why she is? Like if its because she likes you, or she is just being #####-ish, or she just does that to everybody?

I won't call you a wimp. What I will do is state the obvious. Meaning "best buds" means you are in the friend zone forever. See, women are under the impression that you want to be friends with them, just for their personality. This is not the case, and if you don't like this person other then wanting to go out with her, I suggest you break it off, because this will get in the way later.

About that other girl, I'm a busy guy, and you should have posted the other girl in this thread as well.




Another question, how do you know when a girl is flirting? and why she is? Like if its because she likes you, or she is just being #####-ish, or she just does that to everybody? Obviously not directed to all the women. Let me tell you, this girl is just joking with you if she said "best buds" already. She wants nothing to do with you. sexually. In fact, she is a ##### for leading you to believe that she does like you, because any smart person would have picked this up so fast. Ugh, no offense.

[Kilut]

Yea, the best buds thing was wierd for awhile, but then she asked me to go running..... And that just messed with me more.

Also, edited with the other one

[Robert The Jester]

Going running with someone isn't really a step in a relationship..........

I'd say be aloof for a little while, hang around the girl's friends, or go on a date with them. You're gonna have a more difficult time though because you're in the friend zone with one of them

Or, a threesome

Whichever works best for you

[Dan]

Ok so me and this girl are really good friends, we talk about pretty much everything, including relationship stuff, and I always ask her for advice and stuff. I have liked her for awhile now, but she has a boyfriend and they've been going out for a couple months. And also, when and if they break up, how long should I wait to ask her out? We also both go to different schools and shes a year older than me.



Boy, you know how to pick em. Well, I wouldn't pressure her to drop her boyfriend for you. You might as well just look for other girls, w/o boy friends. If she does get rid of her boy friend on her own free will, move in a few days later. Who knows, she might find a new one fast. But that's nothing to get your hopes up with. Find a new girl.

[denacioust]

Honestly, why does everyone on this forum have the exact same problem with women? They have two women, one has a boyfriend and the other doesn't have an interest.

Ill give you the advice everyone will give you, have a threesome and then dump the ugly one.

Ok, here we go with some real advice.

Girl 1. Has a boyfriend, move on. If you know her boyfriend, wait a while, otherwise I'd start making moves fairly quick.

Girl 2. Well, to me it seems as though she's just a flirt, there's a lot of girls like that it's just in their nature to be flirtacious with guys. She asked you to run? So what? My girlfriend can go running with whoever she likes, it's not an invitation into her pants. I think you guys are friends, and will remain that way.


So, in summary, turn gay.

[Kilut]

O_o

I have other interests lol
These were just the main ones, the ones i actually needed help with.
Any other girl troubles I have are like "there's a girl I like, but I dont know if she likes me" Kinda stuff.

Those were answered in the birds/bees topic, whereas these weren't, and I was also just wondering how to distinguish between flirting and then liking you.

And the only reason I mentioned the running thing is because when you're younger, smaller things are a bigger deal.



Penises disgust me.

[TheLegendKiller]

Honestly, why does everyone on this forum have the exact same problem with women? They have two women, one has a boyfriend and the other doesn't have an interest.

Ill give you the advice everyone will give you, have a threesome and then dump the ugly one.

Ok, here we go with some real advice.

Girl 1. Has a boyfriend, move on. If you know her boyfriend, wait a while, otherwise I'd start making moves fairly quick.

Girl 2. Well, to me it seems as though she's just a flirt, there's a lot of girls like that it's just in their nature to be flirtacious with guys. She asked you to run? So what? My girlfriend can go running with whoever she likes, it's not an invitation into her pants. I think you guys are friends, and will remain that way.


So, in summary, turn gay.

OT: Are you sure letting her run with other guys isn't an invite to her pants

[Halo007]

Honestly, why does everyone on this forum have the exact same problem with women? They have two women, one has a boyfriend and the other doesn't have an interest.

Ill give you the advice everyone will give you, have a threesome and then dump the ugly one.

Ok, here we go with some real advice.

Girl 1. Has a boyfriend, move on. If you know her boyfriend, wait a while, otherwise I'd start making moves fairly quick.

Girl 2. Well, to me it seems as though she's just a flirt, there's a lot of girls like that it's just in their nature to be flirtacious with guys. She asked you to run? So what? My girlfriend can go running with whoever she likes, it's not an invitation into her pants. I think you guys are friends, and will remain that way.


So, in summary, turn gay.
Why are all the girls involved older or younger by 1-3 years?

Seriously buddy, I would go for your own age group. Unless this girl wants you to go do #### with her that she wouldn't normally do with anyone (i.e. Running) she obviously is ####ing with you.

This other girl has a boyfriend. She hasn't made any attempts to break it off as far as you've said so #### it. Go look for someone else.

[H1TWOMAN]

Well basically us women are hard to understand (if you don't know that already).

Girl number 1: Okay so you say that you are really good friends, is your friendship worth losing if you were to date and then break up on bad terms?
Girl number 2: If she has already made it clear that she only likes you as a friend then I would advise you to leave it. I think she is probably enjoying the fact that you like her and she is partaking in some 'harmless' flirting.

How to know if a member of the opposite sex likes you? Look at their body language.

Watch what their hands and feet are doing when in conversation - if we find someone attractive, subconsciously we will point towards them with our hands/feet/legs etc.

If a person likes what they are looking at, their pupils will increase in size and they will blink more often.

If a girl is playing with her hair when talking to you then she could be feeling comfortable enough to show that she feels feminine around you.

Leaning towards you and whispering is a flirting technique that us ladies use a lot more than men.

Basically watch the person you are interested in, if they are doing a few of the above then you could be in luck!