Dating someone

[a1b23]

I am new to the dating scene and thus very nervous about asking girls out. Quick question. This girl at my churchjust broke up with her boyfriend like 2-3 weeks ago. I asked her out yesterday and she said no. I really want to date her but don't want to sound like a pest or naggie/desperate even ("Please go out with me.") Any siggerstions? I was going to wait about a month for her to "rebound" but I don't want her to reject me again.

[DarkReality]

If she says no, then try to get to know her. Talk to her, let her get to know you. She's not going to just say yes for no reason other than to give you a chance.

Or leave it be and find a new fish.

[Lui]

If she says no, then try to get to know her. Talk to her, let her get to know you. She's not going to just say yes for no reason other than to give you a chance.

Or leave it be and find a new fish.
You know guys, that's the biggest cliche in this forum now.

Just get to know her, that's simple enough.

[LizardRob]

Asking somebody out twice isn't a good idea, if they were interested in you at all, they would have at least tried a date with you. You can try to get on her better side, but next time you ask her, your chances will be halved because you asked before.

[Showbiz]

My 2 cents:

You shouldn't go dating people from your church. Find someone else, if she says no, then you should either wait a month or 2, or find someone else to date. If you didn't want her to reject you, you shouldn't have asked her out on a date. You should ask expecting rejection, as not every chick will want to go out with you. Unless you have a hell of a lot of money or a 14 inch dick.

[denacioust]

She said no. Accept it. I'd say maybe just get friends with her or whatever and maybe someday it might happen, just don't be expecting her to change her attitude anytime soon.

[MushroomMammoth]

I'd say you're pooped, but you could pick her up in 20 years at your (junior) high-school re-union.

If she's single.

Unfortunately girls are weird and for some reason when they say 'no', they mean it. Been there, done that.

[Maxpayne]

As Dark stated; get to know her better, start hanging out, then slowly go for the kill.

[AssaultRifle]

I am new to the dating scene and thus very nervous about asking girls out. Quick question. This girl at my churchjust broke up with her boyfriend like 2-3 weeks ago. I asked her out yesterday and she said no. I really want to date her but don't want to sound like a pest or naggie/desperate even ("Please go out with me.") Any siggerstions? I was going to wait about a month for her to "rebound" but I don't want her to reject me again.
She said no: move on. Any girl that cannot see something good in you from the getgo is obviously not right for you. What you just did is a perfect learning experience: the worst thing they can say is no. Congratulations, you've gotten past the hard part.

Don't ask again, it will make you seem stalker-ish/strange. Just get over it and look for a new lass to chase.

[n3xus]

Better luck next time pal, anyways you should get to kno someone alot before asking them out.

[Maxpayne]

Although.....

If she sounded like she ment "no" then obviously she means "NO"!!!!!

[Max]

Congratulations on stating a horrible opinion, Max. If she says no, then she means it, no crap.

Back on topic; She said no, get over it. If you ask again, then you'll scare her off even more. Try to become friends with her, and move on to someone else. It's not like she's the only bi- I mean girl out there. Look around you.