Complicated matter... Ask her out?

[pemdas21]

So, here is my story...

I have a sister on a traveling soccer team. We go on trips to other cities that often take up a weekend. My sister is considerably younger ( a few years) so it would be kinda weird to ask one of em out. (don't want to anyway shudder).

However, a few of the girls on the team have siblings that are close to my age. Two of them are friends of mine from school. The other one is the girl I like. This is where it gets complicated.

The other two guys like her, but have not made a move. She has led me to believe that she is interested in me, but this could be just a false reading. All of the girls on the soccer has already made it known that one of the other guys on the soccer team and the girl should go out, and they continue to give them a hard time about it.

I would really like to ask the girl out, but I still want to be friends with the other two guys. I also really don't want things to be akward between the gal and I incase she says no... Well I guess things could be akward if she says yes as well. Also, she doesn't go to the same high school as me, and I don't get my drivers license until March.

Here is where it gets even trickier. One of my ex-girlfriend's sister just joined the team. She travels with them as well.


So, I ask you, is it even worth asking her out?
Thanks in advance...

(A bit complicated huh?)

[DarkReality]

A travelling soccer team? Like a circus?

>_>

How close are you to these guys? How important is it that you stay friends. You're pretty much stuck between deciding what's more important. You could always talk to her and sort of directly imply that you'd like to ask her out and see how she reacts.

But if you won't get your license until next year, you might as well not do it. What point is there if you see each other every blue moon? Not the relationship she's looking for, I assure you. So hold out and be friends with everyone. And once you're more mobile, you can still ask her out.

[Vagrant]

Ask her out. Those guys can be jealous that you asked her out first, but who do they have to blame? Themselves for not acting. You probably wouldn't lose them as friends if they aren't making any moves.

(Seriously, the only time you shouldn't ever make moves is when a guy is making moves or already has her. That's about the only time)

[pemdas21]

First off, the team just travels on weekends because there is no competition where we live... They are the best of the best here.

Secondly, there are always 2 games a week, whether they be here or in the state above us.

I am kinda close to the other two guys, but the three of us are very different.

I think that I am going to hint my interest in her here and there, and when we are alone (which happens quite frequesntly) I may talk wiht her about it. We always seem to be very close when we are alone. I think that she may be thinking the same thing as me... We only see eachother on weekends.

By the way, her sister is close friends with my sister... Just though I would let you know.

The season starts up in september, so maybe I will talk to her about it then.

P.S. Her mom is like the worst control freak you have ever seen. I.E. She put a keylogger + some sort of url logger that sends her emails if certain urls/keywords are typed in. Not the greatest for my situation. Although she among all the other parents are still amazed with my computer skills, so maybe it won't be so bad.

[Arca]

Her mom must die.

Plus there are like a bijjillion ways to get rid of that, so if your friend wants to, just ask some people who are good with comps (I'm good but not THAT good) and they should be able to get rid of it without her mom noticing.

Controlling ##### deservs it.


Oh yeah. Go for it. As soon as possible.

[pemdas21]

to tell you the truth, I would much rather stay on her mom's good side... Although, I know how t get past it... She is getting her own laptop, so I could give her a linux live cd and there are unsecured wireless networks around her... But, I dn't want to impede on her mom's authority.

So Arca, you think that it is worth it to ask her out?

[jason]

It's not complicated at all.
You like her and you ask her out. That's how it works. Who gives a crap about others feelings? They'll get over it and learn it was there fault not having the balls to ask her out sooner.

[pemdas21]

So that leads me to my next question then... Should I wait until I see her again, or should I call her up and talk to her that way... I probably won't see her until September.

[jason]

Call her up, ask if she wants to hangout. Hangout until you have the courage to ask her out. =\

[Robotdeath]

Ask your sister out instead.

[pemdas21]

okay, I will do that as soon as I have launched my updated version of a website. (Way to much to do. I have been posting during breaks)